Tell Me About Your Biggest Problem Regarding Motivation, Laziness, Confidence, Procrastination, Energy, Time Management
Hello,
Please tell me the biggest problem you are facing regarding these issues and also tell me what specifically you would like me to do to help you overcome the problem.
IMPORTANT: Write in Detail: When you write below, please write in detail. For example, just saying “my problem is time management” does not tell much. Write in 2 parts:
- Explain the exact difficulties you are facing.
- Tell what all things you have tried that have not worked.
The more complete detail you can give, the better I can understand and the better I can try to help.
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Thanks and regards,
Raj
43 Responses to “Tell Me About Your Biggest Problem Regarding Motivation, Laziness, Confidence, Procrastination, Energy, Time Management”
SAKSHI
Hello Sir!
Actually its pretty good 2 see m nt alone
I checked out your 7 steps for success and thay are really gud and true. I want to share my problem with u.
Actually I am an intelligent person who can study a lot in lesser time, i started doin this during semester exams nd also got good ranks. But my problem is that i am not able to concentrate on one thing for a long time. During my degree i hav done a lot of practical work than theoratical studies becoz i didn’t liked their education system ….. I rather participated in many tech-fests in IIT’s and NIT’s but it was due to influence of my very gud friend, i helped him a lot, supported him and started becoming lik him and almost forgot what i actually wanted. I want to pursue M.Tech in a very good institution and am nw starting to prepare for it. But the problem is that my mind deviates many times from the goal. I can’t concentrate on my studies. I hav 5 months left for the exam and i know dat when it comes to hardwork, i could put in a lot but for lesser duration.
So, what exactly i should do to be more persistent in my work, to increase my concentration and to overcome the fear of my failure????????? plz reply
Thanks and Regards
SAKSHI
subha
Sir,Pls help me…..I am doing my MBA . I could not concentrate on my studies for a long time.I could study hardly 1 hour on an average. I use to make time table and study but I could not complete it within the stipulated time. I am very scared of statistics,financial management,operational research(Maths subjects) while taking these books it comes in my mind that I don’t know anything and I will not be able to understand and remember these subjects even though I work hard. even though later after studying this I could understand better to what I thought of me earlier.I have lack of confidence also.I could not remember the formulas even though I strive hard to remember it.
chakshu
hello sir, i have completed my b tech now iam pursing gate long term coching. iam not able to study more time. iam not able to concentrate on my studies. i dont know the time mangement. i want to get the good rank in gate for this year. please help me sir
thanking you sir,
shormi
hello sir,
i am preparing for bank exams.my problem is that i get demotivated very often.whenever i see i am not being able to solve something and others doing it faster than me i loose all hope and become frustrated.i am lazy too.i want to study hard but i feel very sleepy and cannot get up in the morning and even if i get up i am never being able to study.i want you to tell me whether i have any health related issues as i always feel tired and how do i improvise on my time management in my daily routine.i will be highly obliged if you answer my queries.thankyou.
keerthi
i am a hard working person and good at my studies till my school days.but later,when i entered college,hostel life changed me into a complete lazy girl….now i finished my studies,maried and have akid too.got married 3 years back…yet to work…i very badly wanted to work,but something stops me….probably my laziness….i lack self confidence,no goals in life,no interest in anything, negative thoughts,no mind control,,not serious about life and future,no time management…..i was not like this previously…..i very badly want to come out of it and be a active and successful person in life.please help me.
shayer
i am very weak in time management.now i am doing btech second year .i don’t have any serious mentality towards my studies.i don’t have any fear while exam comes.so that i didn’t studied any thing.but i am very much interested with my course.no tension.
sir actually what is my problem……………………? .i am very much careless about that i have to do.
sir please help me
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vimala
I have been suffering from motivation, time management,but always my aims are high ,also i do hardwork,eventhough i met many failures in my life.
gaurav chauhan
Hello sir,
i am gaurav i want to become an army officer this is my goal of life .still i am doing b.tech.my problem is very big i am hard working guy but i am not concentrate on things .i have some lake of confidence .iset the action goal everyday but i did not able to finish them because of some reasons no time management,not focusing on goals .i think more but do nothing.
so please sir help me.
Bloom Flora
I get no motivation, i do not avail all opportunities on time… I really do not knoe how to overcome this… Please help…
RISHAB MAHAJAN
am a dropper!! In 12th cbse board 68.24% agg and no competition cleared but my parents were adamnt to put me into donation college that too in one famous pvt college of Delhi and chennai even astrologers predicted not to drop nothing gonna happen your jupiter is in wrong house etc I simply refused them and there was serious quarrel tensions for a period after which my parents agreed in july my thinking was All throughout my life I will have to Regret I Never tried!! Moroever being bottomer in college like I was in my school 11&12th is being of no use and my self confidence would be Zero for rest of my life. I remembered in 10th I got 86.54% I was soo confident etc and before 11th every body told your grasping power is extraordinary you learn very quickly even in 1th some instances came but now Total opposite although last two years now I learn’t mistake that not joining proper coaching[fiitjee etc] was the main issue personal tutors just scorched my money and made hours with zero quality and cbse VS IIT also got my % Down.Today I feel syllabus is very easy I definately gonna can do some good but I lack so called Devotion or concentration like your Book states “Mass actions”are required for goals I wanna know how to do.
HOW TO COMPEL MIND FOR MASS ACTION??
Swati Dhawale
Respected sir,
I heard lot about your Name. i am CA Final year student, i want to clear my exam in the First attempt itself because i want to fullfill all my responsibilities of my family. please sir give me way to reach at my goal i will ready to work very hard to reach at my destination.
i am a person who knows where i want to go but dont know how to reach there i want way which give motivations to work hard.
Thanking you,
yours trually,
Swati.
nitesh dugar
hi sir,how are you…
my problem :- i always use to make time table before opening a book but i cant able to finish it on time
In school days(3rdto8th) i was not willing to concentrate on studies . But after 8th i use to study but by basics are not clear so i always use to get not more 65 percent and so on so what can i do…?
Nitin Singhal
Hello Raj Bapna ji,
1) The main problem is regarding motivation. For example I set a goal regarding studying specific hours a day, then after few weeks the enthusiasm to achieve that goal starts fading. It is also the main cause of laziness.
Whenever I read some motivational story (just as the one you sent about SAINA NEHWAL), it keeps me ignited for a few days but after that the result is same as said above.
Another main problem is procrastination which results in poor time management. For eg. I want to study at a particular hour. But, at that time I feel sleepy and therefore sleeps for an hour or so. After waking up also the task did not feel like to be completed.
2)Regarding your second part I would say I have tried reading motivational stories of Great persons. And I would not say that they did not work but as said above just for a few days to keep me ignited. For eg Your SAINA NEHWAL article kept me motivated for a week or so but after that it started fading.
Thank You
sai charan
hello sir.
I am studying b.tech 4th year. I have started preparation for the C.A.T. examination. but i am unable manage with my regular curriculum. can you please suggest me a remedy for this?
pallav
hello sir ,
I am doing B.Tech(omputer science)3rd year but i want prepare for IAS exam.can i do this. some time i think its very difficult to prepare. what to do????please suggest me how mind power improve me to get success…
Raj
Hello Sir,
My Problems are:
I am Lazy,inspite of knowing this i do not do the work on time..
I lack motivation…
sambhaji shinde
respected sir,
i know your work. i have used your mind machine, music CDs and English course. what is you are doing is simply superb. but my main concern is that how this material will reach to remote villages. i am also living in a remote village far from taluka and district place. There is a lot of talent in remote areas. but you course and teaching is not reaching to them. i read the queries and problem posted by the students. but mostly the students are from urban areas. probably from higher middle class. but what is about countryside………..?
siva
i am poor in English .
how to improve English for fluently speak ?
i have an Interest but delayed that.
how to improve memory?
vardaan
SIR,FIRST OF ALL,I WOULD LIKE TO APPRECIATE ALL THE PEOPLE WHO SHOWS THEIR COURAGE.
SIR,CAN U GUIDE ME ON HOW TO SPEAK ENGLISH FLUENTLY.CAN U TELL ME THE STEPS SO THAT I CAN FOLLOW THOSE.PLS REPLY
vardaan
THE NAME MR RAJ BAPNA SIGNIFIES CONFIDENCE AND WHICH IS A MAIN SOURCE OF MOTIVATION FOR ME.
Vikram Rajpurohit
Hello sir,
Now i am doing my FY BMS in Mumbai. I am also Rajasthani. I want to do MBA from IIMA. It’s my passion but first we have to give CAT exam for the same. My class sir has told me that don’t think about IIMA because i cant get admission in IIMA. But i can do it. plz, help me………………………………………………………………………….
Vikram
Neelam
hello sir,
Actually sir I want to know that how to speak english fluently??? when i talk with someone I feel neverness, I want to improve my confidence too.so suggest me what to do????
Ajit Kumar
Dear Sir,
I am very happy to share my thought to you.
My problems are
1. When I study, I feel sleepy after one hour .
2. Sometimes I feel laziness.
3. Someone advices me to take fish oil to reduce your laziness and sleepy . Should I take this or not?
Ankur bhadauria
Hell sir,
how are you . please tell me what i have to do . actually a lost my confidence
whenever i did reply any i feel enormous nervousness please will get your
suggestion i will wait until your reply.
Subramanian
I have a work experience of more than 6 years out of which 2+ years is in the IT domain. However, I am still struggling with time management. Most of the time, I end up procrastinating or mismanagement of time.
Also lot of laziness has crept in due to which I tend to postpone things many a times.
Also I am very bad when it comes to organizing and managing data because of which I waste lot of time locating emails, searching for ppt content etc and this is a big problem as it hampers productivity to a large extent as far as my job profile is concerned. Its been more than 2 years and no improvement.
sana
Hi,
Actually, I usually have a problem to manage studying time. since I am master student so time management is important things in my study in order to get success in all subjects.
This was my problem, I hope that I could find a magic way to manage my studying time.
TQ.
deepak kumar
Hello Sir,
How are you, really you are doing a grate work for the community, always helpful for the people.
Please tell me what i have to do when i makes mistakes i feels very very bad and i loose my confidence level for few times and than i try to workout so that the same will not repeat in future.
deepak
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Jayashree.C.J
Hello sir,I have completed my B.E in this year.I want to do Ms in any other country but I m having fear,toughness,communication lagging problems.Please help me how can I improve myself
Saitheja
sir,
my main problem is laziness and lack of confidence…….i think of doing anything like start preparing for exam but never i do…..why will this happens with me? please help me out
MOHIT GURNANI
my main problems comprise of time management, laziness procrastination, self motivation…
plzzz do help me to get rid of these problems
sukanya
hello sir,
i am an engineering student.i am in 3rd year and i want to do ies after my engineering after my degree.so if u have any material for the prep of ies can u pls tell me.thanking u in anticipation.
waiting for your reply…………….
sandeepkumar
hi,
i have been suffering from the following activites, Motivation, Laziness, Confidence, Procrastination, Energy, low rembering.Time Management.
Please motivate me.
Thanks&Regards.
sandeep kumar.
phanit
time management, and laziness… sometime i don’t know how to arrange priority and if sometime we work hard on long time we would find as lazy. So, that it is my problem…
Mahidhar
I am afraid of taking risks in life. After my 12 standard I took a break for 1 yr to prepare for IIT JEE, but could not clear it. I got into an NIT with Electronics and Communication as a branch since its the most preferred branch and I was also interested in it. Now after 4 yrs I am again planning to take a break to prepare for Engg. Services Exam(Indian Engineering Services). Since syllabus of IES is similar to GATE it would also help me in getting a seat for ME/M.Tech in IITs. I appeared for GATE this time in my final year exam but could not get my choice branch and my choice college. So I thought instead of compromising I should take a year break again and prepare thoroughly for GATE/IES. But few of my advisers have told me this is a wrong decision as GATE/IES is not a highly competitive exam as IAS. They say that if I fail this time I would be completely useless and dumb, as I would not be eligible even for the campus interviews of M.Tech if I wish to go for further studeis.They say that I should join the company that I got through campus interview. But as times changed my preferences have changed and now I want to concentrate only on IES/GATE.
Because of this dilema I think I have developed a negative attitude which has led to lack of motivation and procrastination
RAJ KUMAR
I suffer from procrastination and i feel i am somewhat slower than others in terms of efficiency.
anamika bandopadhyay
I suffer from procrastination , laziness and I lack confidence while addressing public .
Sreekar
i have a low remembering problem
Ranjita
I have a problem with the time management. Please help me with this
Kiran Mathi
hi,
i have been suffering from the following activites, Motivation, Laziness, Confidence, Procrastination, Energy, Time Management.
Please motivate me.
Thanks&Regards
Kiran Mathi
mohammed
sir,
Iam in a very dangerous and helples situation because of my laziness and procastunation. please
help
Khushi Sharma
Time management, i always present excuses for those works,which is neceassary to enhance my own personality. i think we should be littile bit selfish for us.