You may be asking yourself, “How can I get success?”

Do you really want to get success? Or, just asking?

How Can I Get Success?

Here what Alex says at Unlesh Reality:

The main reason that you don’t get anything done in life is because you don’t actually want to.

You say you want to. But you don’t really.

I woke up at 4:25 this morning to take a friend to the airport. I usually struggle to wake up at 7am with a symphony of different alarm clocks. But I woke up BEFORE my alarms went off this morning. Why? I had decided to wake up. I decided that I wouldn’t let my friend down and that I would wake up to take him to the airport… whereas other mornings I tell myself that I must wake up at 7am, but I don’t actually want to wake up. I just tell myself to do it because I think I should but I don’t decide to wake up, so I don’t.

People say that they want to improve and be brilliant but that’s not actually what they want.

People say they want to do really well academically but they don’t study. Those who do well make it their purpose to do well. They focus fully when they study, and they study for hours. They decide to do well and do everything to make that happen. They live it. Their decision is beyond just words, they make it their purpose.

People say that they want to improve but actually, their purpose is to “just get by”. And that’s all that happens, they “just get by”. And that’s fine. It’s what they want. On a deep level, at least. They’ll tell you that they want to change and improve, but that’s not what they want.

Empty words.

I really believe that you can do anything. Anything at all. I don’t believe in “intelligence” – in the sense that one person is clever and another isn’t – or the idea that one person can do something and another can’t. I really believe, based on my own experience, that if you want something and decide to do it and make it happen then you can. You can do anything at all as long as you decide to do it.

But there’s the thing:

You have to make that decision – that choice – to do it. The intention behind the decision is what makes the decision bloom. Make that decision, feel it as though it is now, with full intention for that to be true, fully feel that excitement that change brings pulsing through your being – don’t just tell yourself that you’ll do it in a lie intended to protect your lazy, useless existence.

We’re scared of change because we’re worried that changing something means it wasn’t already perfect – and that makes us worry that other things aren’t “perfect” – but improving your life relies on the notion that there’s something to improve.

That which you are on a deep level is changeless, perfect, whole and complete. But we can still improve the situations we experience. The experiencer, that which you are, is perfect and changeless but the experience can be changed and improved upon when you decide to do so.

But unless you fully commit and decide to do something – to improve or change something – your indecisiveness will keep you torn between where you are and where you want to be, it’ll create resistance that will limit your potential action, and it will cloud your awareness of the reality of the situation.

You have to make a whole-hearted, committed decision that resonates in every tingle of your being, giving you that “I will do this no matter what” motivation to do something – to act on that decision and to actually improve.

Decide to do something.
Or don’t.
But take responsibility and make a decision.
…because if you don’t, nothing will change.

You decide.

Ready?

Ask yourself again sincerely and deeply “How can I get success?”

And, if you do, you’ll be far more likely to get success.

Editor Raj Bapna’s note: Here is a great article for you:

The Half Step That Will Change Your Life by Leo Babauta

You’d be surprised to know how many emails I get where people are stuck in their lives.

They’re broke, or unmotivated, or in a job they hate, or they can’t find their passion, or they can’t get motivated to get healthy.

And they don’t know where to start.

It hurts to read these emails. It brings back to life the pain I lived through not too many years ago, when I too was stuck.

I know the feeling of despair when you are unhappy with your life and don’t know how to change. When you’ve tried lots of changes, but couldn’t find the discipline to make them stick. When you feel crappy about yourself because you know you should get off your butt and start improving your life, but you’d rather put it off for another day.

Problems go away when you ignore them, right?

I also know that there is really only one way out of this mire of despair.

It’s to take an action, no matter how tiny.

You don’t need to fix everything in your life right now. You don’t even need to fix one thing.

You just need to do one little, miniscule, almost nothing thing.

Make a list. Go outside and take a walk. Get rid of some of your junk food. Clear off your kitchen table. Cancel something tomorrow so you can make time to create something, no matter how small.

Don’t do all of these. Do one. Or half of one, or one thousandth. It doesn’t matter how small — the smaller, the better.

Take that first step. Celebrate that first step. Love the step, not the destination. That step, even the motion of taking the first foot off the ground and moving it forward — that’s everything.

That’s the truth, and you’ll not read it in many self-help books: put every microparticle of your existence into that half step, and be nothing but that half step, and love it with all you have … and your life has changed.

With this half step, everything is different. You haven’t achieved any goals … but you’ve moved. You haven’t created something amazing … and yet, more than ever before, you have.

You’ve created beauty and joy and movement where none existed before, where previously only constriction and paralysis and confusion lived. You have changed the world.

The First Habit

Choose one little habit to add joy to your life. Just one, and tiny is miraculous.

It can be writing or painting or making music for 2 minutes a day. It can be a ridiculously easy walk or jog or enjoying a bowl of fruit. It can be 2 minutes of meditation or reflecting in a journal.

Enjoy the hell out of it.

Create this one habit, and you have a success. This is a foundation, a first step, to build on.

Then you can do a second, and a third, but you can’t do those without a first.

Don’t change your entire life. Just change this one little thing.

You’d be amazed how much that matters. I was.

Did you find your own The Half Step That Will Change Your Life?

Have you decided what is the first half step you are going to take?

Do it now because you will benefit.

Wishing you mega success,

Way #1: Use Your Text Book

Use the same text book as your teacher uses. This helps you to revise faster whatever you learn in your school.

But, just be aware that text books are written mainly to teach subjects and not for success in competitions. So, text books are not sufficient for sure success in today’s cut-throat competitions in India.

Way #2: Join Good Classroom Coaching

Join some good, reputed classroom coaching.

Generally, there is nothing as good as good classroom coaching. So, you should join a good classroom coaching if you can afford to spend Rs 30,000-2,00,000.

If not, then you should join some good correspondence coaching (cost Rs 5,000 to Rs 20,000).

Talk to your friends, classmates, and teachers to find out which are the best coaching options in your city.

Way #3: Use Special Notes Such As Memory Maps, Mind Maps

If you can find, use some special types of notes that allow you to revise a lot of your course material within very short period of time. Such revisions help you to memorize and help get success in competitions.

Your Next Step

• To learn to create your own memory maps or mind maps, order Mind Power Exam Maximizer
• If you are preparing for IIT-JEE or AIEEE, order Memory Maps for Physics

Hello,

I want to help you, so I ask you to do this.

Please write below the biggest problem you are facing right now.

Please tell in detail and include these 5 points:

1. The biggest problem
2. What will I gain when I overcome this problem
3. What will I lose if I fail to overcome /solve this problem
4. What have I already tried to solve it and how much results those efforts gave
5. How seriously are you interested in really solving the problem

Also read below the problems that others have. If you had the same problem and solved it, ONLY THEN write how you solved and that may help others.

WARNING: If you are lazy and don’t write in 5-steps as above, you don’t get my reply. I’ll try to reply to some, but most questions are somewhat similar and I will only answer those questions that are new or different, so you can also get answer to your question by reading others comments and my reply.

My best wishes,
Raj Bapna

If you have used some method from my articles here or my courses or from any other source and want to write an article about how others can use the method to benefit, I’ll be happy to publish your article here UNDER YOUR NAME.

You’ll get some fame. You’ll feel good knowing you are helping thousands of students.

I recommend you give your email at the bottom of the article (and name of your website if you have one) so people can write to you.

First step is to send me the title of your article with one paragraph of detail to: article@mindmachinelab.com